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spankingfemme) wrote2014-12-16 09:32 pm
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It's getting kind a kinky *evil grin*
Today's question:
ashmedai asks:
Dec 16 What is one kinky activity that you fantasize about, but would never want to carry over to reality?
This might be a little too dark for some, so I will state my answer under the cut!
I've had lots of fantasies along the scene of rape or total domination such as enslavement/caging/making a 'pet' of a favored character etc. The raw urge to claim and take is heady, and the emotional turmoil and the feelings associated with these acts are so powerful and intense that it is fun to explore.
Obviously 'actual' rape is totally abhorrent, but in a fantasy world it is a safe place to act out these desires and get it out of my system. I've role played the idea although it can translate awkwardly, and I tried my hand at co-writing a graphic fic with this in it (back when I was digging on Loki hardcore :P) but I kept it mostly to myself since I was afraid of the backlash I'd get for sharing it. (I know, I shouldn't care what others think, and for the most part I don't, I just don't want to hear the flack. I already get enough of it just writing spank fiction which is considerably less 'dicey' when it comes to non-consensual, so I just leave it in the closet...) I do really like reading it as a guilty pleasure though, and Jason has tastefully written some of my plot bunnies for me since I'm too embarrassed to myself! LOL! XD
Pick a date in December and give me something to talk about. Give me a question or topic-- absolutely anything goes - whatever strikes your fancy, and nothing is taboo or TMI, or any of that nonsense. If you're not comfortable asking here, go ahead and PM me.
So far I've got:
cookielaura
Dec 1 favourite things to eat and drink?
katje0711
Dec 2. Who's your favorite author and what's your favorite book by them?
katje0711
Dec 7. Who's your favorite Doctor and why?
ashmedai
Dec 6 How did you come to realize you were kinky? Do you think it's always been a facet of your personality, or did it evolve?
iamrman82
Dec 9 Favourite Christmas movie and/or Christmas song
frostydragon
December 12 What is your all time favorite cartoon that includes a spanking? =3 (I’m curious to see if I know it.)
dungeonwriter
Dec 14 Favorite movies of yours.
katje0711
Dec 15 What's your all time fave fandom?
ashmedai
Dec 16 What is one kinky activity that you fantasize about, but would never want to carry over to reality?
frostydragon
Dec 18 - What's your all time favorite Disney character from any movie/tv series/shorts?
ficwriterjet
Dec 20 Now that you've had two kids, and some time to recover from the pregnancy/birth, how do you think the two pregnancies and births compared? Was one better or easier than the other and why?
iamrman
Dec 24 Favourite Christmas food?
connorblond
Dec. 25 Sunrise or sundown?
Feel free to chime in on any more questions to fill up the month! =D Ask me some fandom questions! Sex/spank questions! Philosophical or moral questions! Come on guys, I know there has to be SOMETHING interesting to ask me with so much month to go! :P
If you gave me a question and you don't see it on the list, please let me know as I tried to make sure I recorded them all, but I may have missed one!
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Dec 16 What is one kinky activity that you fantasize about, but would never want to carry over to reality?
This might be a little too dark for some, so I will state my answer under the cut!
I've had lots of fantasies along the scene of rape or total domination such as enslavement/caging/making a 'pet' of a favored character etc. The raw urge to claim and take is heady, and the emotional turmoil and the feelings associated with these acts are so powerful and intense that it is fun to explore.
Obviously 'actual' rape is totally abhorrent, but in a fantasy world it is a safe place to act out these desires and get it out of my system. I've role played the idea although it can translate awkwardly, and I tried my hand at co-writing a graphic fic with this in it (back when I was digging on Loki hardcore :P) but I kept it mostly to myself since I was afraid of the backlash I'd get for sharing it. (I know, I shouldn't care what others think, and for the most part I don't, I just don't want to hear the flack. I already get enough of it just writing spank fiction which is considerably less 'dicey' when it comes to non-consensual, so I just leave it in the closet...) I do really like reading it as a guilty pleasure though, and Jason has tastefully written some of my plot bunnies for me since I'm too embarrassed to myself! LOL! XD
Pick a date in December and give me something to talk about. Give me a question or topic-- absolutely anything goes - whatever strikes your fancy, and nothing is taboo or TMI, or any of that nonsense. If you're not comfortable asking here, go ahead and PM me.
So far I've got:
![[profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
Dec 1 favourite things to eat and drink?
![[profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
Dec 2. Who's your favorite author and what's your favorite book by them?
![[profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
Dec 7. Who's your favorite Doctor and why?
![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
Dec 6 How did you come to realize you were kinky? Do you think it's always been a facet of your personality, or did it evolve?
![[profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
Dec 9 Favourite Christmas movie and/or Christmas song
![[profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
December 12 What is your all time favorite cartoon that includes a spanking? =3 (I’m curious to see if I know it.)
![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
Dec 14 Favorite movies of yours.
![[profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
Dec 15 What's your all time fave fandom?
![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
Dec 16 What is one kinky activity that you fantasize about, but would never want to carry over to reality?
![[profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
Dec 18 - What's your all time favorite Disney character from any movie/tv series/shorts?
![[profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
Dec 20 Now that you've had two kids, and some time to recover from the pregnancy/birth, how do you think the two pregnancies and births compared? Was one better or easier than the other and why?
![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
Dec 24 Favourite Christmas food?
![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
Dec. 25 Sunrise or sundown?
Feel free to chime in on any more questions to fill up the month! =D Ask me some fandom questions! Sex/spank questions! Philosophical or moral questions! Come on guys, I know there has to be SOMETHING interesting to ask me with so much month to go! :P
If you gave me a question and you don't see it on the list, please let me know as I tried to make sure I recorded them all, but I may have missed one!